I waited patiently for the Lord; he turned to me and
heard my cry. He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he
set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand. He put a new song in
my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see and fear and put their
trust in the Lord. Psalm 40:1-3
I’ve had six different offices in my 14 years of
counseling. I began working out of my condo, then moved to a tiny 9x9 office
some years later. Last month I had the opportunity to move my counseling office
within our suite. I had eyed the corner office with two walls of windows since
we leased the suite three years ago. When I initially joined the suite, I was
thankful for the opportunity to be part of a group of folks who, like me, loved
helping people. First-time clients called my small office “cozy.”
A lot of good things took place in that small office.
Clients laughed, cried, and God used me to walk alongside them in difficult
times. I wrote and published my first book, From the Other Side of the Couch: A
Biblical Counselor’s Guide to Relational Living. I was content and grateful for
God’s provision. Then an opportunity came open and I stepped out and asked if I
could move into the more spacious corner office. Just one door down, yet I feel
a new energy, new ideas, and hugely blessed every time I walk into that space.
Some clients see my wonderful office and experience my
joyful heart and incorrectly assume I’ve never had difficult life circumstances.
They see me with a new song of praise in my mouth without knowing the slimy pit
where God rescued my heart, mind, and soul. Looking at my blessings causes them
to feel ignored and abandoned by God. Yet my transformational journey is the
vehicle God continually uses to help others find their own firm place to stand.
Do you look at the blessings of others and feel rejected
by God? Do you beat yourself up when comparing yourself to those around you? Do
you feel helpless to change your hopelessness?
Waiting on God’s timing in changing our circumstances can
be excruciatingly difficult and discouragement will threaten to set in. But it’s
at those times we most need to lift our eyes up to the mountains, ask for God’s
help in your time of trouble, and receive hope through the testimony of others.
What matters most is your perspective. Work hard to confess your negativity to
God, asking him to pull the root of bitterness out of your heart. Wrestle with
your automatic fleshly nature when it compares and condemns.
Ask God to show you others who’ve been rescued. Listen to
or read about their story of transformation and allow it to inspire your heart.
Then focus on crying out to God in the middle of your muddy life. He will not
leave you stranded. God promises to give you a new song anchored by the firm
foundation of his love for you.
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